Jenny,
the Thomas Birch born with mmn GRICE was born in 1848, not 1850. The Thomas you are looking for must have been born at the earliest the very end of 1851 because his older brother William was born at the end of 1850. This may be just a case of a missing registration for Thomas . Have you looked for baptism?
Dave
Mary died in June qtr 1853 in Tamworth Union district (Staffordshire).
I have FMP and can't find a baptism for Thomas. I thought he might have been registered under a different name but still can't find a child born within that time limit with mmn as ASHMORE!