Si-FI

Feb 20, 08 - 1:13 PM

Very Well Protected......

I used to be an angry boy...now i,m a slightly angry adult! It,s f*cking backward that abusers in such high places are so well protected. Oh, i went to anger managment classes but the police got to my case worker and as a result he lied to them about my age as well so as usual....there was not alot of help! Now then, i ain,t no conspiracy theorist but i reckon that there is alot of time, money and effort wasted on scum like this. We.. me, my brother and my Mrs went to crown court at Newcastle to hopefully have our say...this was after months of police enquiries and the arrest and bailing of this abuser...who was Director of Education for the Diocese of....guess i can,t tell you the last word, but he covered over 400 schools. Actually, bollox to them..it was Lichfield, anyway, he knows he wouldn,t have the balls to take a civil case against me as he knows he,s as guilty as 'SIN'.
3 points is all they came up with that day to stop it going into the courtroom. These points they came up with were bullshit and lies, actually pathetic, we were left waiting for hours wondering what was going on...obviously they were flapping like headless chickens along with the CPS, C of E, trying to get this piece of shite off the hook. We were given our statements late and the dates and ages were wrong! I was was taken into a small room and told by the 2 coppers in charge of the case, one of them in tears "we knew he was big but not this big" Nooooo, that,s strange, i would never have thought that since it,s the main reason i grassed the piece of shite up in the first place!! We were ushered out of a side door while the Revnd Nonce gave his speech to local and national press on the front steps of court.
In this case many people who were there to help fell foul along the way, if there is justice in this world then it,s very hard to come by, while my mother was trying to take her life on several occasions this nonce was getting me drunk and abusing me, like most people i had the problem of working things out and to this day... to a degree i feel i still am, ...why..how..you know. Don,t want sympathy, justice, that,s all. The fight against him will keep going, he knows it! However...it doesn,t dominate my life as it used to, sure i have my moments! It,s fair to say that if i knew that trying to take some abuser to court was gonna be that much stress....This is a very brief outline of what happened, this protection must have happened to effect other victims..sorry SURVIVORS!who have tried to go through similar a process? we had no help at all, just me, my bro and my beutifull partner. I won,t thank god but i sure as hell thank those nearest and dearest to me to help me get through a very dark tunnel and grasp a glint of light.
Onwards and upwards, for me, life begins at 40. Warm Regards to all. X

Trydeep

Feb 23rd, 2008 - 1:47 AM

Re: Very Well Protected......

Hi Si Fi

I think I am in the same boat as you. But u know ...there is hope....Let me tell u

§tèvë

Feb 23rd, 2008 - 2:07 PM

Re: Very Well Protected......

Hi
Good to have you posting and also good see you letting the ager out, which is a safe emotion to feel and express

Also good to see that you named and shamed him too

Look after yourself, say hi to you brother for me, and to you, of course, and stay in touch

§tèvë

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Si-FI Feb 20, 08 - 1:13 PM	Very Well Protected...... I used to be an angry boy...now i,m a slightly angry adult! It,s f*cking backward that abusers in such high places are so well protected. Oh, i went to anger managment classes but the police got to my case worker and as a result he lied to them about my age as well so as usual....there was not alot of help! Now then, i ain,t no conspiracy theorist but i reckon that there is alot of time, money and effort wasted on scum like this. We.. me, my brother and my Mrs went to crown court at Newcastle to hopefully have our say...this was after months of police enquiries and the arrest and bailing of this abuser...who was Director of Education for the Diocese of....guess i can,t tell you the last word, but he covered over 400 schools. Actually, bollox to them..it was Lichfield, anyway, he knows he wouldn,t have the balls to take a civil case against me as he knows he,s as guilty as 'SIN'. 3 points is all they came up with that day to stop it going into the courtroom. These points they came up with were bullshit and lies, actually pathetic, we were left waiting for hours wondering what was going on...obviously they were flapping like headless chickens along with the CPS, C of E, trying to get this piece of shite off the hook. We were given our statements late and the dates and ages were wrong! I was was taken into a small room and told by the 2 coppers in charge of the case, one of them in tears "we knew he was big but not this big" Nooooo, that,s strange, i would never have thought that since it,s the main reason i grassed the piece of shite up in the first place!! We were ushered out of a side door while the Revnd Nonce gave his speech to local and national press on the front steps of court. In this case many people who were there to help fell foul along the way, if there is justice in this world then it,s very hard to come by, while my mother was trying to take her life on several occasions this nonce was getting me drunk and abusing me, like most people i had the problem of working things out and to this day... to a degree i feel i still am, ...why..how..you know. Don,t want sympathy, justice, that,s all. The fight against him will keep going, he knows it! However...it doesn,t dominate my life as it used to, sure i have my moments! It,s fair to say that if i knew that trying to take some abuser to court was gonna be that much stress....This is a very brief outline of what happened, this protection must have happened to effect other victims..sorry SURVIVORS!who have tried to go through similar a process? we had no help at all, just me, my bro and my beutifull partner. I won,t thank god but i sure as hell thank those nearest and dearest to me to help me get through a very dark tunnel and grasp a glint of light. Onwards and upwards, for me, life begins at 40. Warm Regards to all. X
Trydeep Feb 23rd, 2008 - 1:47 AM	Re: Very Well Protected...... Hi Si Fi I think I am in the same boat as you. But u know ...there is hope....Let me tell u
§tèvë Feb 23rd, 2008 - 2:07 PM	Re: Very Well Protected...... Hi Good to have you posting and also good see you letting the ager out, which is a safe emotion to feel and express Also good to see that you named and shamed him too Look after yourself, say hi to you brother for me, and to you, of course, and stay in touch §tèvë